A Man!

As a child a man to me was someone caring, thoughtful & protective. To me my father & my uncles were a great example of how great men can be. Growing up, I started feeling that men's world is mysterious................. & I was dying to know more about those Aliens! :D 
A man to me is someone you can trust. someone you can pour your heart & mind out for him to know you better & you find him willing to know more & he is willing to listen in order to understand .... not to judge!. A man is someone willing to know your interests & your priorities, he is eager to know you as a person he is not willing to look down on you & he doesn't think that your interests are insignificant. He takes you seriously, he cares about you & about your well being. He wants to make you happy. He is ready to give without expecting much in return. He is there for you when you need him. He is simply a human being! a good one sometimes :P you know what? and this is coming from a feminist......... some men are alright! they are not that bad ..... well, okay!!!! let's be fair............. some of them are good! .......... good enough for you to trust them & count on them :) Good enough to admire them & even to love them. Look for such a man dear sisters & do not go for anything less than that! DON'T compromise ................ unless you fell in love & you're head over heals or something..... well if your heart is on fire do the ice bucket challenge to cool it down & listen to your sound of reason for a little bit...... try to achieve some balance.

Look for someone you can respect. Someone you can love for who he is. Someone you can be proud of, someone you just can't wait to tell the world " you know what?! this man is my significant other!"

Don't rush to get engaged to just anybody cause your family or friends are encouraging you to do so, wait for Mr right to show up, wait for him to take the step, wait for him to say it, think carefully about it, make up your mind, don't lose control.

Look for someone that you can be open enough to speak up your mind with. Say whatever you want without any worries or fear in my case I wish I could go like " You know what?! I don't "need" to be with you cause i was good, living & breathing before you showed up but I do want you in my life.... I don't know why but I just do "
And last but not least...... Don't you dare fall for someone who doesn't love you back or doesn't love you enough to fight for you. We live in a crazy, harsh & cruel world and no we don't need a rich or a handsome spouse to be happy or to feel secure .... we as ladies need men who won't give up on us no matter what!.We need fighters who fight for their dreams to come true. In other words look for someone who considers you to be one of his dreams that he is willing to fight for.
You don't have to be the most beautiful & attractive woman on Earth for him to fight for you.... you just need to be good enough for him. Don't you settle with someone who is considering you not to be good enough for him cause as days go by that will kill you slowly & eat you up till you lose whatever self esteem that you once had!.
Be with someone who respects you & loves everything about you even if you can't even stand your own self & don't believe that you're good or worthy of love. Everybody is worthy of love whether they believe it or not. Everybody deserves fighting for.
Learn to love yourself first & then fall for Mr right!
Nov, 17, 2014


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